We curate each group carefully — for energy, for balance, for flow. We pay attention to gender balance and experience levels, because the right mix makes everything feel different. If this isn't your time, it's not about you. It's about the particular constellation of this evening.

Not quite — and the difference matters. There's intimacy, touch, sensation, genuine closeness. But no penetration. That's a deliberate choice: it keeps the space safe for newcomers, removes any sense of pressure or performance, and — in our experience — opens up more pleasure, not less. Especially for women. Come curious. See what's possible within that.

Your body is the temple. Arrive feeling fresh, unhurried, and fed — but if life happens and you arrive a little frazzled, we'll help you land. We'll meet you where you are.

Come in all your cuteness, openness, and confidence. Most people feel comfortable in lingerie, sheer fabrics, kimonos, sparkly accessories, or something that makes them feel alive in their skin. Wear what lets you breathe and be held.

A little something delicious for our shared buffet — cake, quiche, salads, dips. Let love be one of the ingredients. And of course, bring whatever makes you feel comfortable and cared for: your favorite toy, toy cleaner, massage oil, anything you'd like to share with the group.

These nights are something we all carry with us. Share the feeling, the warmth, the fact that something like this exists — but always protect the privacy of who was there. No names. What happens in the temple, stays in the temple.